a review of Amy Simpson's book Troubled Minds: Mental Illness and the Church's Mission


"I think we can do better. I think we can be more like the church we were made to be. ... / / ... Ours is supposed to be a community where the hurting, broken and sin-scarred find rest and redemption. Where everyone present owns up to being a hurting, broken and sin-scarred individual, rescued from the ultimate death, the ultimate suffering--which we deserve--by the grace of God. Where that same grace / causes us to reach outside ourselves and, through the Holy Spirit's power, love one another" (29-32). 

Mental illness is one very real evidence of our living in a broken world. The stats are staggering. "About one in four adults--a little more than 25 percent of Americans ages eighteen and older--suffers from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year. Yes, one in four. That equates to around fifty million people in the United States" (33). Not only that, but "every year an estimated 20 percent of children in the United States are at least mildly impaired by some type of diagnosable mental illness" (35). 

And when one suffers, all of us suffer. Mental illness never affects only the person diagnosed (or undiagnosed but suffering). It affects a family, a community. 

This is not an easy topic. It hits too close to home. To each of our homes. It's hard. And yet one of the biggest lies out there is that if you or someone you love is suffering with mental illness, you're all alone. You're not! You are not alone. 

Amy Simpson writes with compassion and understanding. Her own mother struggles with schizophrenia, diagnosed when Amy was a teen. Amy graciously but openly shares their story (chapter 1). But she's also done her homework. And while acknowledging "that each person's experiences and perspectives are unique" Amy has "attempted to capture a general sense of many people's reality, along with sharing [her own] family's experiences, to offer some insight into the challenge of ministry to people with mental illness." As I look back and see Amy's words "I hope you'll find that the pages of this book are filled with honestly and yet overflow with grace for both those directly affected by mental illness and those called to help suffering people in the context of the church" (19), I reply, "Yes, Amy, Yes! That's exactly what I've found! Thank you!"

If you're looking for one book to read to help you understand what mental illness is and to initiate some ideas of ways you can practically encourage and be a help to the individuals and families in your community (and especially in your church) who are wading through the deep river that is mental illness -- this is the book! 

Amy goes well beyond defining the categories and giving prevalence, though she includes that in chapter 2. She fleshes out the story, lets us in on personal situations, shares the crisis moments and the day-to-day challenges. Throughout the book, Amy gives "a heavy dose of hope ... based in the power and grace of Christ, who is always with us and who will not allow anything to separate us from his love (Rom. 8:38) ... based in the comfort of God's constant presence with us (2 Cor. 4:8-10) ... [and] rooted in our knowledge that something much better is on its way (1 Cor. 15:43)" (20).

Chapter 3 paints the familial picture, sharing the ways we suffer when mental illness affects our families. She talks about the special rules that are established to maintain peace, the resource monopoly (emotionally, physically, and financially) to manage, confusion, anxiety, guilt, maladjustment of children as they grow up, role reversal when children find themselves being the caregivers for parents, instability, the difficulty of determining appropriate medications, grief and loss, shame, and spiritual crisis. "Wrestling with these ... in the context of a supportive church -- where faith is deep and honest enough to acknowledge that life in a sinful world is painful and twisted and that some questions don't have answers this side of heaven -- could make a huge difference in determining whether the questions destroy or develop faith" (80). This chapter was especially helpful. 

One of the things I admire about Amy's perspective is how balanced it is. As she walks us through Coping, in chapter 4, she advocates for an appropriate respect toward the field of psychology and what we can learn there, while at the same time pleading with pastors to not merely refer individuals for outside help -- but to continue to walk through and counsel the sheep entrusted to their care throughout the journey. For some, the journey will be shorter. For others, it will be ongoing. But to have not just a knowledgeable professional psychologist but also a compassionate shepherd is critical to the long-term success of any believer walking this path. It is important to remember that the individual must give consent for the mental health professional to be able to communicate with the pastor.

Chapters 5 and 6 deal specifically with church life and ministry. 

A few key quotes: 

" When the church is silent to a person in crisis, it can sound remarkably like silence from God" (100). 

"People in mental health crisis, as with any other crisis, need friends. They need connection with loving people--especially those who will point them to Christ. And this kind of loving connection is impossible in an environment that asks people to make the rest of us more comfortable by pretending to be healthy, happy and impervious to trouble" (103).

"We do have victory in Christ. As forgiven people, we are no longer slaves to sin and its ultimate consequence. ... But while we are not slaves, we still live in the slaves' quarters. Our world is poisoned by sin, our bodies are cursed, and all of our endeavors are flawed. God has promised to remove us from this world someday and to replace these imperfect bodies with new bodies ... suited for life in a perfect world without decay. We can walk in the light of that future hope, even though we live in a shadowy world. When churches embrace this dual reality, they help bring lifesaving hope to suffering people" (107-108). 

"I believe our minds, bodies and spirits are more interrelated than we can understand. And we know that each of these elements of who we are can have a powerful effect on the others. I won't deny that spiritual problems can lead to problems in our brains and bodies, just as physical suffering can affect our spirits. But this does not justify the assumption that all mental illness is spiritual at its root and can be cured through more spiritual work on our part--any more than we should expect to cure cancer by simply confessing sin and praying more. Spiritualizing mental illness translates to blaming sick people for their illnesses. ... It traps people into working harder. ... This is not the gospel message, and it is very effective in discouraging people from acknowledging their struggles and seeking help" (108).

"[Caring for individuals and families affected by long-term mental illness] is a daunting task, and it doesn't fall to an individual eventually--it has to fall to the whole body of Christ because it's only the body that can handle something like that for a lifetime" (113). 

"People with mental illness need to work hard to manage their illnesses as effectively as possible. But they might still [struggle] over the long term, even after working hard and taking required medications" (114). 

"For people with any kind of brain disorder, accurately understanding the world can be difficult at times. Accurately understanding deep spiritual truths can be, on occasion, impossible" (117). 

"The good news: God is not intimidated or limited by our lack of wits or resources. He will (and does) minister to people with mental illness through the bumbling efforts of church leaders, through the presence of silent companions who keep quiet only because they have no idea what to say, through the efforts of caring people who don't know Christ..." (119).   

"The church matters because it is the first place many people go when they need help of all kinds, including help with symptoms of mental illness. And it matters because it represents God and is equipped by the Holy Spirit to pour out Jesus' love on this world. And when someone is rejected, ignored or marginalized by the church--representatives of God--they feel rejected by God. It also matters because it is a powerful instrument against darkness in the hands of a God who loves the light. The church can and does make a difference" (132-33).

Chapter 7 is entitled "Persistent Stigma" and provides both a brief history of how people have responded to mental illness as well as a handful of reasons that have historically magnified the stigma within the Church. We need to face these honestly and pray for God to open our eyes to ways we've given into cultural stigmas instead of reflecting Christ's love and opening our arms to welcome these fellow human beings into our family. We don't like to believe that these kinds of pains are so prevalent and can affect the people we love. But pretending doesn't prevent pain from affecting us. In fact, it can set us up for false expectations and leave us not knowing how to cope when our stigma-glazed reality is shattered. I can't even choose which portions of the second half of this chapter to quote. I read the whole thing out loud and discussed it with Alan on a recent road trip. Such important things for church leaders to work through. Please -- read this chapter!! 

Chapter 8 gives some great examples of communities who have done well to include and help individuals and families who are touched by mental illness. Can I just say, it's not as complicated as you might think. And in a big way, what we're doing in our church with Life Groups is a really practical starting point to be knowing one another, living life together, opening up about our struggles, and sharing the load together. Living like this is beautiful. This is what church is all about. 

I will quote this, because our church has been focuses on prayer recently and because it's a take-away that can quickly change the atmosphere: "The hush-hush approach actually reinforces and lends credibility to the stigma by suggesting that mental illness is something to be ashamed of. Besides sermons, public prayers are a good place to mention mental illness. As you're praying for those facing other illnesses and obstacles, why not mention (in general unless you have permission) people struggling with depression, anxiety disorders and other mental illnesses?" (183). 

The final chapter rejoices in what God does throughout the journey. God is working for our good and for His glory. Amy shares some really precious testimonies as she closes her book. 

I can't even begin to tell you how thankful I am to have a book like this. Amy, you made yourself raw and you really worked hard to be thorough and intensely practical. Well done! May God richly reward you for your labor of love for His body. 
michelle


a review of Mark Belz's book A Journey to Wholeness: The Gospel according to Naaman's Slave Girl

Tucked away in the chronicles of the kings of Israel, is an astonishing story of a young girl, captured from her homeland by Aramean (Syrian) raiders. Her captor contracts a skin disease, and rather than curse him to die, this precious child bravely and lovingly suggests he visit the prophet in Israel. She's heard enough to know there's still a prophet in Israel, that the God of Israel works wonders. 

Over the past decade, this little story (found in 2 Kings 5) has captivated my attention as I've worked through the narrative, shaping into a middle grade novel told from the three servants' perspectives. When I saw Mark Belz had written on this story, a non-fiction biblical study of the Old Testament story as a foreshadowing of the Gospel, I was immediately intrigued. This story, according to the front matter of the book, has long held his attention too. 

Really profited reading these two books in tandem:
A Journey to Wholeness: The Gospel According to Naaman's Slave Girl, by Mark Belz (P&R 2015) , &
Troubled Minds: Mental Illness and the Church's Mission, by Amy Simpson (IVP 2013).
After the resurrection, Jesus walked on the road of Emmaus and told the disciples Old Testament stories that point to the Gospel. That Jesus Himself directed their attention to the Old Testament should encourage us to look back at the Old Testament ourselves, expecting to see glimpses of the Gospel there too. We certainly see God's judgment and mercy intimately connected, we see His zeal for righteousness and yet His grace for those who acknowledge their need (both Jews and outsiders) all throughout the Bible.  

Mark Belz has an engaging style. He is personable and transparent: he has both a unique aptitude for illustration and application as well as a true humility that is utterly refreshing. The first chapter gives an overview of the story. The next nine work there way through the various characters and situations of the biblical text. And the last three chapters take us forward into the New Testament and on into our future hope. 

This is "a story about disease and healing, riches and poverty, unbelief and faith, smallness and greatness, slavery and freedom, weakness and strength, allies and enemies, slavery and freedom, lies and truth, worship and sacrilege, the common and the holy" (4) -- and how much of that is immediately relevant to our present age!? 

I appreciate Mark's faithfully coming back to the text, promoting the Word of God as "reliable [and] profitable" (1), and this particular portion as "a sliver of Jewish history," "a powerful example of the gospel of reconciliation" (4), and "a foreshadowing of the ... gospel" (5). 

So much of what we as humans long for in this sin-cursed, broken world is reconciliation. We want sin's reign to be ended. We want darkness to be overcome by light. We give our lives to fixing things, to making better, to helping those who are hurting. We're all touched by this. All of us. This story has the ministry of reconciliation as its theme. And it's beautiful! Full of grace!

Perhaps the most captivating character for me is the slave girl herself (the focus of chapter 3). In my novel, I call her Cassia, because she does not have a name in the narrative. Mark insightfully writes, "This tender soul was now far from her home, helpless, oppressed, maybe even abused" (23). When we look at the same part of the world in our present day, it is not so hard to imagine what this sweet young girl saw and experienced. "It's hard to imagine a crime more unfeeling and inexcusable than what these raiders inflicted on this little girl. By brute force they ripped her from her home, from her security, from those she loved and who loved her, away from those she depended on and trusted, and then pressed her into slave service far from home" (23). And yet, "astonishingly, this young girl was concerned for him [her captor, Naaman]" (27). She demonstrated love, joy, peace, faithfulness -- evidences of the Spirit of God working in her (28-32). 

And I love this: "She didn't go into the greater subjects that might have been discussed. What she knew, and what her master knew, was that he had leprosy and needed to be healed. Like Jesus, she spoke directly into his need" (34). Mark continues, "Giving a person in need a direct remedy specific to that need--not just a general expression of sympathy or a theological lecture--shows person concern and displays deep and true love for that person. It is an act that the hurting soul can understand and appreciate" (35). 

And more: "True compassion for another always involves real investment, and investment means risk" (35). Now that's a statement to mull over and work out its applications in our own lives. 

In the chapter on Gehazi and Elisha (chapter 9), after Gehazi has distorted the gospel to Naaman by seeking to gain personal advantage as a "carpetbagger" (104), Elisha confronts Gehazi. Mark points out, "God disciplines his own, yet his mercy has no limits" (107). There are certainly some enduring consequences to our own sin, but when we "confess sin, it is hard and liberating at the same time" (109). "When we confess our sin, ask God and those we have offended for pardon, and turn from the sin, we are consoled in knowing that neither the sin nor its consequences are the end of the story. We are not a prisoner of our sins, nor are we defined by them: 'for sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace' (Rom. 6:14). We do not look at Gehazi as the sinner-leper and think, 'Well, that's it. It's a shame, but that's how Gehazi turned out.' No, Gehazi hadn't turned out. Nor have we. The chastened sinner has a sure hope for change, growth, and God's rich blessing in his life" (112). And later in the biblical text, we do receive that hope that Gehazi, though likely left with scars from his leprosy, was at least able to interact in society and even to share the miracles of Elisha with the king (2 Kings 8). "Gehazi is a great encouragement to Christians. ... Repentant, disciplined, and forgiven sinners may have unsightly scars, but like Gehazi's, they are battle scars that bespeak victory. God still uses us" (117). 

The second to last chapter (chapter 12) speaks to many of the lessons God's been kneading into my own heart. Humility. Respect. Solidarity (or "togetherness"). These are deep, needed, healing, amazing! And He's still workin' on me.   

At the end of each chapter, Belz includes a handful of questions for further reflection. In addition to the benefit of just thinking through them personally, these would be great for working through this book in community, with a small group or Sunday school class.

Whether with a group or on your own, I highly recommend this book to you. It has a balm and a blessing in my own "journey to wholeness." And I have every confidence it will be the same for you on your journey. 


Multiplied grace and peace,
with love, 

michelle

What biblical narratives or gospel-focused books have been a blessing to you on your "journey to wholeness"? Leave a comment below. I'd love to hear from you.  

diet of bookworms

What books do you recommend? What genres do you like? What kinds of books are your favorites? What do you think about fiction vs. nonfiction?  

I get these questions -- a lot. So I thought it might be a good idea just to put down some thoughts here. 

Reading is nourishment, the way I see it. You take it in and it affects your growth.  




Above all, we need to be taking in the Word of God. Like water, it's basic to living. I need this. In fact, I can't live without it. It's wonderful and powerful -- and unlike any other book. Definitely in a category all its own and worth taking in every day!

Beyond reading the Bible, I like to encourage people to look at their reading as a literary diet. Just like with healthful eating, it's important to have balance and proportion. 


I tend to treat fiction like the fats and sweets of a healthy diet. And I tend to encourage towards the literary fiction, which is kind of the dark chocolate and coconut oil of the literary food chart. 

I view the classics as fruits. They've earned their reputation. And though sweet, their time-honored value merits approved-treat status. 

Historical narratives are my veggies. Good for us, and helpful to understanding history.

For me, general nonfiction correlates to grains. Knowledge is power. But knowledge also puffs up. So it's important to choose wisely which grains you're consuming. 

And religious nonfiction is my protein. In my eating, I tend to bulk up on protein. And in my reading, I tend to crave this category as well. Obviously not all proteins are created equal, and in this category (as other categories), discernment is crucial. 

I love reading books that help me understand God, His Word, and His created world (including the intricacies of what it means to be human). And I take in each of these categories with that goal in mind. 

You'll find lots of reading reviews on this blog. And I only write about what I recommend. 

If you have questions about specific books or categories, please leave a comment below, and I'd be happy to respond. 

As a note, you do have to find the balance that works for you. Just like some people do best with a ketogenic diet that's high in fat, then protein, and low in carbs, I'm not recommending a right or wrong percentage here. What I am promoting is balance. And no matter what diet you're on, drinking water is non-negotiable. So stay in the Word.  

Also, like the fine print at the bottom of the food plate diagram, it's good to remember: reading is important. But we don't need to be gluttons. In order to be healthy, we also need to be outside, working and getting exercise. We need to keep up with our personal responsibilities, etc., too. Take in. And then go and do! 

What's your balance? What works well for you? 

Multiplied grace and peace, 

michelle

book review: a sweet and bitter providence (john piper)


As providence would have it, the Sunday after I miscarried Kali Grace in 2008, Fred Coleman introduced me to the song "God Moves in a Mysterious Way." Because Kali's name means "rosebud," the stanza that sang "The bud may have a bitter taste, but sweet will be the flower" held immediate and deep significance for me. (You can read more about that here.) 

When I saw John Piper's title A Sweet and Bitter Providence, I was intrigued. And, like my sister-in-law when we were opening Christmas presents this year, I was even more excited when I learned that the substance of the book was the biblical story of Ruth. (It also helps that CBD has had this book on discount for several months, the hardback marked down to $3.99 -- from $17.99!)


Each of us faces different challenges in the sovereignty of God. There are challenges with relationships, with culture, within our own hearts. There is suffering and pain. And there are plenty of unanswered questions and switchbacks (as Piper calls them) where we can't see the path in front of us until we've come around a sharp bend on the mountain road of life. The question that comes to many of us is, "Can I trust and love the God who has dealt me this painful hand in life?

If I were to answer that question with facts and statistics, it may be hard to swallow. But a beautiful story of grace and love and providence -- the biblical story of Ruth -- now that I can take in. Isn't it amazing how geared for story we humans are? And it's especially powerful when we understand the story is true, which this story is. When we realize Ruth and Naomi and Boaz are real people, with like passions and emotions as yourself and myself, who lived during a difficult season of history (the time of the judges) and whose lives impacted down through ages (even to our lives, through Christ) -- that's amazing and worth our time to consider.


Throughout the book, Piper does come back to William Cowper's hymn, weaving the rich theology of that song into the commentary of the biblical text. I say commentary loosely, for this is not a thick academic study (it reads very easily and personally), but it does work through the passage with appreciate interpretation, explanation, and application. And in fact, for the book of Ruth, it's the most understandable and accurate treatment of even the challenging passages that I've heard/read. Piper treats Naomi fairly. He paints the midnight proposal appropriately, underscoring the beauty of purity. He even gets to the hot topic of racial harmony (sadly still a necessary note, but gloriously a possibility because of Christ's work). And he draws helpful parallels to other biblical characters as well as more recent individuals who have walked with faith, hope, love, and strategic righteousness.  

Because the book of Ruth is written down, and we can read the ending as well as the beginning, it helps us see how God works. As Piper points out, "[God] is at work doing a thousand things no one can see but him" (23). And that's true for our lives as much as Ruth's.  

"Like all Scripture," Piper writes, "this story is inexhaustible" (120). But he's done a great job helping us get started and encouraging us to continue our pursuit after God and our ongoing study of His precious Word. 

I have every confidence that no matter how long you've been a believer, no matter what stage of life you're in, and no matter what circumstances you're presently working through, this book will be a blessing and encouragement to you. And I won't be surprised at all if some of you find yourselves buying extra copies to share with those you love. 

Multiplied grace and peace, 
with love,

michelle